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The Tigers, the Guitar
Player and the Dream
It’s 2006 – Day One. 2005, for me, was one of those best of years and worst of years, but I think I’ve come to terms with the contradictions. I’ve found that it’s possible to laugh during times of grief, and to grieve at the happiest moments. Acknowledging and accepting the ambiguity seems to be key. I’m writing this newsletter on a clear blue New Year’s morning at my home in Sedona, Arizona. It certainly felt strange last night not to be part of the December 31st cold and craziness in New Jersey/New York, but novelty is good for me. I’m much too much a creature of habit. My kids were out here with us for a few days after Christmas, and one morning we decided to visit a wild animal park nearby that was opened last July. At the admissions gate, we discovered that a new exhibit had just been granted permission to open to the public – Playing with Tiger Cubs – and that even though reservations were required, a group had cancelled just before we arrived. My daughter Lauren was stunned. One of her dreams has always been to be able to play with tiger cubs, but that wish was for “sometime in the future”. And now, suddenly, we were in an enclosure with the park’s owners and tiger keepers, and we had 15 minutes in which to share that dream-come-true with her. The cubs, two females (Harmony and Harvest), were four months old and weighed about 40 lbs. I love kittens, but here we were with two kittens romping about in the bodies of bulldogs. Their paws were enormous and I was completely awed by the length and thickness of their tails. We were instructed in the proper way to interact with them and how to “read” their moods through their eyes. 
As my son AJ said, it was awesome, but I think my greatest delight came from watching Lauren’s face as she ran her hands through the tigers’ fur. Have you ever observed someone living out their dream? Happily, we have it captured on film. That evening, we all went out to dinner at our favorite restaurant with a couple we recently met. Roy and I had been at that same restaurant in November, and had heard a mesmerizing Flamenco guitar player. One of the nicest things about Sedona is that so many artists of every type are drawn here and there is never a shortage of wonderful music and artistic display. However, I felt especially attracted to this player’s music and bought his CD on the way out. The CD, entitled “Sedona Sun”, was beautifully produced, and I was curious to see his website. I liked what I read, and emailed him, asking permission to recommend his site from my own. To my surprise, he wrote me back right away, thanking me graciously, and suggesting that we get together the next time we were in Sedona. So that’s how the four of us, plus Greg the guitar player and his wife, Nancy, came to be at dinner together. We had a marvelous time, and went back to our house, where Greg entertained us with selections from Sedona Sun. And I had my own dream-come-true moment. 
Listening to talented musicians in my own home, surrounded by friends and family, has been an unspoken dream of mine for years. It’s taken a long time to manifest, but the power and joy was every bit as great as I had anticipated. Nothing gives me more pleasure than bringing special people together and watching them interact. The movie “Field of Dreams” was on TV the other night, and it reminded me that although some dreams may have to be deferred, others can come about so unexpectedly that they may not seem real. What’s important is to allow the dreams to form, and then give them the opportunity to manifest without assigning conditions or holding to expectations. It can be hard to imagine how, where and when they will play out but chances are very good that they will, and in the most surprising ways. This year, make sure that you take time to acknowledge your dreams, and the dreams of those who are close to you. And may 2006 see your most cherished ones come true. ******************************** “No person has the right to rain on your dreams.”  |
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